As the days grow longer and the sun shines brighter, summer offers the perfect opportunity to create lasting memories with friends and family. With a myriad of exciting events and adventures waiting to be discovered, there’s no better time to step out and make the most of the season. In this blog, we’ll explore the variety of thrilling summer events and activities we have to offer and the benefits of getting out there to ensure that your summer is filled with unforgettable experiences. Let’s get ready to embrace the warm weather and dive into a season of fun, laughter, and new adventures!

While summer can be an exciting time for getting outside to enjoy the nice weather and make memories, there might be times when your friends are busy, or they simply don’t want to try something that you want to do. That’s what Events &Adventures is for! Hosting 30+ events every single month in each of our clubs across the US and Canada, you can have a full calendar of exciting activities and meet great people along the way.

Benefits of Attending Our Summer Events

Events & Adventures was made for singles like you to meet new people in a low-pressure environment and help you find a potential match. There are several other advantages to becoming a member, including:

Expanded Social Network: The main advantage to participating in summer events with E&A allows you to meet new people and expand your social circle. Engaging in activities with like-minded individuals can lead to meaningful connections, friendships, and potential partners!

Strengthened Relationships: Participating in local events helps foster a sense of belonging in a social circle – and internally. By engaging in activities with fellow members, you can feel more connected to your hometown, foster stronger bonds through shared experiences, and engage in a relaxed and supportive atmosphere.

Improved Health: Taking part in social summer events can improve your physical and mental health in more ways than one. Doing so can help alleviate stress, reduce feelings of isolation, and boost overall happiness while keeping your body active. Enjoying time outdoors and socializing with others promotes a positive state of mind and encouragement to maintain a healthy lifestyle.

Exposure to New Experiences: Social summer events often offer a variety of activities, performances, and cultural experiences. Events & Adventures plans these events to help broaden your horizons and expose you to new ideas, arts, and traditions. Who knows – immersing yourself in these various activities can also spark inspiration and creativity in your own life.

Summer Events You Can Attend with Events & Adventures

Now that you see how summer events with E&A can improve your life, it’s time you see what you can look forward to as a member. These are just some of the dozens of activities we offer our members every summer:

• Outdoor adventures like sand volleyball, wakeboarding, ziplining, skydiving, hiking, and water obstacle courses.
• Laid-back summer events from private yacht excursions to exclusive E&A pool parties at various locations to dinner cruises around your city.
• We introduce you to potential new hobbies like cooking, archery, ariel yoga, book club (in-person or virtual), even DIY crafts like a homemade wall mount bottle opener, rug making, bonsai tree planting, and more!
• Perhaps the most exciting aspect of our summer events are the awesome trips we offer! We plan domestic and international vacations for you so you can see everything while having time to explore on your own. Some of our trips this year include Yellowstone, The Grand Canyon, Morrocco, The Galapagos Islands, and more to come – but you’ll have to sign up to see what else we have planned!

Are You Ready to Join E&A?

Summer is a time for relaxation, exploration, and making memories that will last a lifetime. It’s also a time to make your life more exciting and try new things! By attending summer events with Events & Adventures, you’re sure to create an unforgettable summer experience for yourself surrounded by some amazing singles. Whether it’s dancing the night away at a music festival, sampling delicious treats at a food fair, or embarking on an outdoor adventure, there’s something for all of our members to enjoy. So, make this summer the best one yet by embracing the endless opportunities for fun and excitement that await you with Events & Adventures! Contact us today to get started Living A Life You Love.

Making friends as an adult is already difficult. Throw in a life-altering event like moving to a new place and you run into a whole new set of challenges. You still have friends from your hometown, but you’ll have to step out of your comfort zone to make the most of your new home. While it can be intimidating, Events & Adventures is here to give some tips on how to make friends in a new city, and to be an avenue for you to meet other singles!

How Can I Meet People?

Meeting people and forming meaningful friendships is difficult, and even harder as an introvert. But don’t worry! There are various low-pressure ways to put yourself out there and build connections. Here are some ideas on how to make friends in a new city:

1. Coworkers: Proximity is your friend here, and networking isn’t limited to business! Getting to know your coworkers is such an easy way to make friends, especially when you already have shared experiences and conversation starters. Attend office social events like work happy hours or parties, or invite coworkers for after-work activities. These connections can lead to meeting their other friends, further expanding your social circle.

2. Seek out group activities: No matter what you enjoy – cooking, art, running, even volunteering – chances are there are local groups that align with your hobbies and interests. All attendees automatically share a common interest, so it will be easier to start a conversation. Keep an eye out on your local Facebook page or keep track of flyers at local shops to find upcoming events near you!

3. Go on some dates: A great tip on how to make friends in a new city is by going on dates! Dating may lead you to a romantic relationship, but could introduce you to some friends as well. Approach dates with an open mind, free of romantic expectations, and see where things go – you may develop a relationship with a future partner, or make a new friend in the process. Either way, dating keeps you open to new people and provides an opportunity to explore your new city.

4. Meet your neighbors: Living in a home, apartment, or condo, there will always be neighbors to connect with. Be friendly and greet people when you see them and attend any community events your complex may host. If you have a local roommate, they can show you their favorite spots and introduce you to others. If moving with a friend, you’ll have someone by your side to help you connect with others while you navigate your new home.

5. Be confident: Exuding confidence attracts people to you and encourages interactions. Engage in small talk on your outings, ask someone at a coffee shop for directions, or chat with someone at a restaurant or bar – you never know where one conversation can lead!

6. Join a club: One of the best recommendations for how to make friends in a new city is to join a club! Similar to local group activities, clubs provide an environment to meet like-minded individuals and often offer a consistent schedule of events you can attend. If you enjoy variety in your life, join Events & Adventures! We offer 30+ events in our clubs nationwide – and in Vancouver – that are designed to bring other singles together for fun experiences and to create lasting friendships.

While there are countless ways to meet new people, these methods can seamlessly integrate into your daily life without disrupting your routine. Making friends in a new city may seem daunting, but it can be easier than you think. All it takes is the courage to step out of your comfort zone and embrace the opportunities that await!

Meet People with E&A

With Events & Adventures, you won’t have to wonder how to make friends in a new city – it’ll be easier than ever! Our mission is to create a low-pressure, high-fun environment for singles aged 25-59. Our activities range from wine tastings to bowling, water obstacle courses, axe throwing, and so much more! Our events foster genuine connections while ensuring you have the time of your life.

The fun doesn’t stop there! In addition to local events, we also host international trips with incredible itineraries to any bucket list location you can think of – Machu Picchu, Italy, Greece, Africa…the list goes on! Plus, we ensure a safe and inclusive environment for all by connecting with each potential member one-on-one, so you don’t have to question someone’s intentions.

With Events & Adventures, you won’t have to wonder how to make friends in a new city – let’s grow your social circle together. Contact us today to find the closest club to you and get started Living a Life You Love!

Do you feel like you meet a lot of self-involved people on the dating scene? Events & Adventures has over 30 years of experience watching new relationships grow. We’re a singles activity club that has been bringing single members together for bucket-list adventures across 15 cities (and growing), for over 30 years. We don’t possess psychology degrees, but we do have extensive experience with people and what makes them tick. Our expertise has aided us in screening members before they join the club, equipping us with helpful advice that we share here with you. The chances of encountering a narcissist in your dating experiences is decent – if so, what to do?

The term narcissist has become increasingly popular recently, but it is important to understand what narcissism really is and, if you are dating a narcissist, how dynamics can affect your relationship. Narcissists are people with an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. They often lack empathy for others and pursue power and control in their relationships. Someone can be narcissistic without being diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), which is pathological and more severe. If you think you may be entangled with someone displaying these signs and symptoms, there are tell-tales signs to confirm your suspicions, and steps you can take to protect yourself from emotional or physical harm.

Common Signs of Narcissism in Relationships

At first, it can be difficult to recognize a narcissist. They may come across as charming, witty, and engaging – traits that often make them attractive. But, as time goes on, you might start to notice a different side of your partner. They may become demanding and controlling, overly critical, and/or start showing a lack of consideration for your feelings. People with narcissistic tendencies use manipulation tactics to get their way and they might even become physically or emotionally abusive.

Narcissists are often extremely self-centered and believe that everything should revolve around them. This can be seen in how they communicate with others, as they may interrupt conversations or talk over people who are speaking. When dating a narcissist, you may also notice that they need constant validation and attention from their partners, becoming overly jealous or possessive if they don’t get it. Narcissists also have a hard time taking responsibility for their own actions, and often try to deflect criticism by blaming others or making excuses.

Protecting Yourself in an Unhealthy Relationship

If you recognize that you might be dating a narcissist, there are several steps you can take to protect yourself and maintain some sense of autonomy in the relationship.

Set boundaries in stone, or at least on paper.

It’s important to set clear boundaries and communicate them to your partner. While boundaries should be established in any relationship, it is paramount if you’re dating a narcissist. Record verbal agreements and get them in writing if you can, with their permission. This will help you avoid feeling taken advantage of and disrespected, and will also give you something to fall back on later. Narcissists can unintentionally gaslight you into believing you are wrong, mistaken, or confused, but not if you have written or recorded proof that they agreed to previously.

Don’t settle for less – or you always will.

Don’t let yourself be manipulated into things you don’t want to do, and definitely don’t let your partner control your every move. Be assertive in expressing your desires and needs when dating a narcissist – including standing up for the enforcement of the first tip. This does not mean to be aggressive to your partner, it means you should politely remind them (and yourself) that your wants and needs are just as valid as theirs.

Be patient.

Standing up for yourself is only one side of the coin. As previously mentioned, a narcissist may not even realize that they are gaslighting you or taking advantage, so don’t get upset with them. Always stand your ground for the things that matter to you, but try remember that if the person you’re dating is worth your time, effort, and affection – they are also worth your time and patience. If you ever feel like your partner is the enemy, that’s your cue to leave.

Maintain each other’s self-esteem with equal effort.

Narcissists typically have enough confidence to go around, but that doesn’t mean they’re willing to share it. After the love-bombing phase, when a narcissist is content in the relationship, you may have to put aside time for yourself. Self-care activities, getaways with your friends, and time spent with family can help to remind you that you are loved and appreciated. Dating a narcissist can be draining at times, but if you pull too far away, they may feel threatened.

Seek out professional help.

When you feel like the relationship is becoming emotionally abusive, it’s important to reach out for help and consider leaving. Don’t hold on to something that’s hurting you just because you’ve been clutching it for a long time. Though some studies have shown that therapy can garner results, convincing a narcissist that they need any kind of help is an uphill battle, so pushing them to go to couple’s therapy is likely going to start an argument. Stick to the other tips on this list and if they still don’t agree to work with a professional (or if things go beyond just emotional abuse) – it’s time to get out and find a community of supportive people. (More on this in a bit.)

If you are in an unhealthy relationship with a narcissist and need assistance, there are resources available. You can reach out to the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at (800) 799-7233 or speak to a mental health professional who can help you learn more about narcissism and how to protect yourself in an unhealthy relationship. In the best-case scenario, you both go to couples therapy, but convincing a narcissist that they need help can be a daunting task. With the right resources and support, you can take control of your life and either fix your unhealthy relationship with a narcissist, or break free from it altogether.

Maintaining a Successful Relationship with a Narcissist

Some people seek professional help or find ways to deal with dating a narcissist, and in many cases, things work out fine. Love knows no bounds, after all. And just because your significant other either showcases narcissistic tendencies or has NPD, doesn’t mean you can’t live long and happy lives together. If it doesn’t work out, however, it’s important to remember that it likely isn’t your fault. You deserve to be respected and loved in a healthy, supportive relationship, and that means being able to maintain your autonomy.

Life After Dating a Narcissist

Not only does life go on if you choose to end the relationship – now you can start living a life you love! One of the biggest reasons people commit to their narcissistic significant other is that they feel trapped. Narcissists can be incredibly persuasive, charming, and charismatic. Because they are so self-absorbed, they tend to love-bomb and shower you with affection – while simultaneously making your entire life about them. Usually, their worst sides only present themselves when they’ve already implanted themselves deeply into your life. So, what’s the solution? Well, our best advice is to get back out there as soon you feel you are ready. This time, you’ll have the lessons you’ve learned to guide you.

Go On Events & Adventures

Events & Adventures is an activity club for singles only. We’re not a dating club, but have been bringing singles together from over 15 cities with more on the way, for over 30 years! Our charming and knowledgeable hosts put together more than 30 activities every single month, and they’re happy to walk you through every step of the process. The best part is, not everyone gets in! We do full background checks and hold live interviews with each new member to ensure they’re a good fit before they join. We want you to have the best time with the best people, and with decades of experience – we’ve gotten pretty good at weeding out the narcissists.

If you’re ready to start living a life you love after dating a narcissist, you’re more than welcome to join us! Call 1-800-386-0866 today.

You’ve probably heard it before – communication is key. When setting your boundaries in dating, it’s tough to establish ground rules without having a conversation. While it may seem scary to put your emotions on the table, it’s a worthwhile exercise when getting to know someone.

So, what are boundaries? Boundaries help us communicate our wants, needs, and issues we are having. This means that boundaries will vary from relationship to relationship. They could be physical, emotional, or even geographical. There are many types of boundaries, and that’s why a dialogue is necessary. Maybe you’re the type of person who likes to take things slow, so you decide to wait a certain amount of time before going on a vacation, or even moving in with someone. Or, the person you’re talking to may have a pre-existing concern from a past relationship. That’s something to listen to and consider when setting boundaries. Open communication about worries, hopes, and fears will lead to a healthier and happier relationship going forward.

When Do You Set Boundaries?

Maybe you haven’t met your significant other yet. That doesn’t mean it’s too early to set boundaries. Boundaries stem from your own attitude and character and contribute to the standards you expect in a relationship. Before you even meet someone, you may already have existing boundaries in place. This will help you avoid any awkwardness months or years into a relationship when you feel the need to put your foot down. The purpose of these limitations is to protect yourself, so it’s never too early to consider what’s off-limits. Setting boundaries early on puts you in an ideal position to meet someone compatible with your personality.

Which Boundaries Should You Consider?

The boundaries you set are a personal reflection of your character, but there are some common themes among dating limitations. You’ll want to consider how you prefer to communicate with someone, whether it’s over text, call, or face-to-face. Think about how much personal space you require or how often you expect a date night. When you get upset, how do you prefer to resolve a conflict? Finally, what is the level of commitment you expect from a partner? These are concepts to consider before you start dating someone, and while you continue to date them, too. And remember, if you look for a partner in a safe, secure environment, you may not have to consider too many rules with a well-suited and like-minded partner.

Listen Like Never Before

So, you’re ready to have the boundaries conversation. This is the time to get to know the person you’re seeing – and listen to what they have to say. It may be difficult for them to communicate their feelings, especially if it comes from a place of vulnerability. It’s important to let them speak without interrupting, and acknowledge that you hear them. While it’s imperative to listen, don’t be afraid to speak up. Starting the conversation is the hardest part, so once words are flowing, let the other person know how you feel. Remember, the most important aspect of this conversation is upholding respect for each other.

State Your Non-negotiables

When discussing boundaries, stick with your non-negotiables throughout the conversation. There’s a reason you decided a boundary is non-negotiable. If you’re having trouble finding a compromise, it’s okay to say “no” in this conversation.

Stay Open to Possibilities

While it’s beneficial to state your boundaries, remember that you don’t need to close the door on opportunities. If you decide to set too many boundaries in a relationship, it’s possible you may miss out on new experiences you may like. Stepping out of your comfort zone is like trying new foods. You never know if you’ll like something until you try it. When breaching your comfort zone, it’s okay to be uncomfortable, but the situation should not be intolerable and painful. Know your limits and trust your instincts.

Speaking of trying new things, you might feel ready to take a leap of faith and meet someone. You never know when you’ll bump into “the one.” Set yourself up for success and make the effort to put yourself out there. Participate in hobbies with a group, join a club, and say hello to strangers. We can help with that…

Time to Meet Someone New

If you’ve established boundaries and feel ready to meet someone, you might be wondering, “Where do I meet them?” In the digital age, many people flock to dating apps. But with the infinite number of people to swipe left or right on, it’s common to become accustomed to the plethora of options. With so many choices, people often lose interest almost instantly. They know other options exist, so coming across one flaw leads to endless swiping once again. There’s a better alternative.

While it may seem antiquated, we suggest meeting people the tried-and-true way. It’s time to put the devices away and spend time with local singles in person. At Events & Adventures, we do our best to make it easy for you. Don’t worry about flaky people you’ll need to set endless boundaries with. Meet up with singles at a pre-planned activity, ditching the arrangement and logistics. Everyone is screened to make your experience worry-free and enjoyable.

With over 30 unique events each month, you can choose to attend the activities that spark your interest. Chances are you’ll meet like-minded individuals there. From bar crawls and skydiving to wine tasting and cooking classes, we’ve got something you’ll love. It’s a no-pressure environment, with no expectation of dating or tying the knot — although many of our members have done so! If you’re ready to meet relatable singles in 14 cities across the U.S. and Canada, join Events & Adventures. Click here to learn how you can get started.